Taking On Too Much

This is the story of my life and the choices I have made. By most people's standards I have probably taken on too much. By my standards, it's just life as usual.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

The Rockefeller-fication Process

So Ken & I had a nice time last night. We went out for scallops and mussels here, and then went to a play afterward. I think I was still aggravated by my day spent with the kids though, and so the whole night I kind of felt, well, tense.

We talked a bit about how overwhelming life seems to be and I think we've come to some conclusions.

First, some back story: I am currently doing a technique/business methodology at the office called 'The Rockefeller Habits' and essentially it's about growth through structured meeting rhythms, specifically a daily meeting,and focused goal setting.

The goal with these meetings is that your staff gets on board with your overall growth plans and through staying focused on their top five priorities, which align with your growth plans, they actually help you achieve the company's overall goals.

I am truly in the infancy stages of implementing this at work but am already experiencing huge attitude shifts from the staff, tremendous buy in from my management, tons of ideas on how to improve our services, and best of all IMPLEMENTATION/EXECUTION of these ideas. If you've ever managed people, you know that the execution is the hardest part.

Seeing such huge successes at work from such minimal implementation of this process has really been inspiring. Perhaps trying to apply these techniques to our homelife could be fruitful. This would involve picking a huge, far away goal (A Big Hairy Audacious Goal), then reverse engineering it down to a 1-year goal, and then 4 quarterly goals. Further, we would have to make a point of meeting daily, weekly and monthly to make sure we are achieving our goals and staying focused.

To me, it sounds a little funny to manage your family the same way you manage your business, but it really does make a lot of sense. Currently, Ken & I seem to just go with the flow most times, and, while we are doing okay for ourselves, there is really no goals or dreams we are whole-heartedly trying to achieve. Implementing this type of system in our lives will, I hope, give us the structure we need to achieve our financial goals, our child-rearing goals, our marital goals, etc.

And, as I sit here in the middle of a day where our schedule includes two separate birthday parties, grocery shopping, lawn mowing, work preparation, all while simultaneously looking after 3 small boys, I have to believe that there is a better way.

There is freedom in routine!

So, all two of my readers, I ask you: How do you manage your hectic lives?

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At June 22, 2008 at 8:48 PM , Blogger Cheryl said...

You know, to be honest, we're kind of go with the flow type people as well. Although, I really am trying to get into more of a routine with housework and such, so that my house is pretty much always clean, without my having to spend half a day or more cleaning to get it that way. I've also been doing all week menu plans for the last couple of weeks, which has been great.

I just find it so hard to have an organized home when I work outside the home!

 
At June 22, 2008 at 9:38 PM , Blogger Tara said...

Tell me about it.

Working outside of the home forces me to give up so much control INside the home. I've had to let a lot of things go.

 
At June 23, 2008 at 5:43 AM , Blogger Unknown said...

We have a routine, because otherwise, I'm afraid things would fall apart. It's part of the reason the big changes make me uneasy -- we're going to have to completely revamp the routine.
I do menu planning for the whole week on Friday, and do the shopping for the whole week on Saturday morning. We have a schedule for cleaning -- on Monday we do one thing, Tuesday another, etc. -- and we stick to that schedule. I cook dinner, Ernie cleans the kitchen. If by odd chance he cooks dinner, I clean the kitchen.
We also have a schedule for who picks up and drops off Gaby, and unless something major comes up, we stick to that.
Don't get me wrong, there's plenty of go with the flow moments, too -- but if we get off the routine, we find a way to get back on track as quickly as possible, so that it doesn't become a domino effect.

 
At June 23, 2008 at 8:56 PM , Blogger Tara said...

When Ken & I come home at night -- we just burn right out. We get lazy. I think if we had a nighttime routine it would help us to accomplish at home.

 

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